don't go to evensong and have always regarded smoked haddock, with spinach and poached egg as an ideal lunch [done to perfection in a local cafe] - fun aside Anna i am not sure quite what you mean by middle class .... it doesn't strike me that the members are barbour wearing 4x4 driving twin set 'n pearls, or city types nor captains of commerce etc .... older, and educated certainly ... and passionate about music too ... i suspect that if we all assembled in one room we might resemble the audience at the Sunday Morning Chamber Music Recitals at the De Montfort ... united in their attendance but diverse for all that ....too middle class and elderly blokes with smoked haddock after Evensong
encouraging that rather civilised openness and not fixing what isn't broken [agree with Simon for once] would be my priorities, i certainly value the private message functionality but have not used the VM, but if people are finding a good use for it why not keep it ....
the use of pictures is a boon in all kinds of ways; jazz is marked by albums and their covers, sometimes a pic is worth a thousand etc, and sometimes they are just fun ... provided the link discipline is observed they should not burden the servers ... [and no one has posted an inappropriate picture [yet]
as for tittle tattle about windows and snow etc, such exchanges were a not infrequent part of the BBC site and seem harmless and add warmth to this place...
and ff is a model of tolerance, sense and commitment for us all, for which many thanks ...


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Originally, I decided to friend everyone I was chatting with in the old "No Subject" thread in case I needed to take my VM forum private. On the old board, a couple of posters who hated me had taken to following me around making unrelated personal attacks after almost every comment, and it was a serious problem I wasn't about to let happen again if I could help it. It hasn't happened yet, but it's nice to know we have the option of chatting in peace, free of harassment.

