Originally posted by smittims
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- the wish to read widely and to see other's points of view. But, valuing discussion, I would make two points:i. It is indeed a good thing to read widely though I wonder (not about your individual case, may I say, but generally), what considerations inform one's choices of reading matter. Why choose to read, for example, Novel X?
ii. I think seeing others' point of view is a start towards empathy. 'Seeing' or perceiving it is a first step; then comes understanding it. You say you have 'tried to understand it'. Do you feel you succeeded?
I find this interesting in the context of phenomenology (I confess I struggle with the concepts so would willingly receive correction) which is the study of consciousness and particularly how 'phenomena' (life, the universe and everything!) are variously perceived from the subjective viewpoint of the individual. Bias stems from the individual's personal 'lived experiences'. I am as biased as anyone else when I see a world in which in many spheres men hold total power and women are as often as not entirely absent; where individuals or small groups of men are drectly responsible for the violent deaths of tens of thousands or the suffering of millions of 'ordinary' people; or where on a closer domestic level deranged men systematically hunt down women who are complete strangers to them and murder them, or who systematically victimise women for their own gratification.
I don't, as a result of reading about such cases, form any conclusion about 'men': but I might (well I wouldn't but others might) write a novel reflecting my perception of this phenomenon; and if there was a predominance of such novels by women novelists might that indicate a common shared experience of life? Possibly. Or not.
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